Brian James O'Connor, 64, passed away quietly with his family on March 9th, 2022. Known as Frankie to family and friends, he was born on January 17th, 1958 in Queens, NY. He is survived by his wife, Elizabeth O'Connor, his son Paul Valitutto and wife Michelle, his daughters, Dawn Valitutto, Michelle Goldberg and Hannah O'Connor and fiancé Nicholas Upshaw along with his grandchildren Olivia Valitutto, Quinn, Natalie, and Matthew Goldberg, and Nicholas Upshaw.

Frankie was part of a wonderful large family that he loved very much and he is survived by his sisters Mary O'Connor Fries, Dorina O'Connor Coyle, Marguerite O'Connor Kaminski and her husband Richard, Patricia O'Connor Whitmire and her husband Ray, Noreen O'Connor Erickson and her husband Alan, and Susanne O'Connor Palmer and her husband Albert, his brothers David O'Connor, William O'Connor and his wife Patricia and brother-in-law, Charles Julian. He is preceded in death by his father Thomas O'Connor and mother Marguerite O'Connor, sister Kathleen O'Connor Julian, his brother Thomas O'Connor along with Thomas' wife Renee O'Connor, Mary's husband Rod Fries, Dorina's husband John Coyle, and David's wife, Susan O'Connor; many nieces, nephews and a host of friends.

Frankie loved to have fun and be active. Everyone who met him loved him and his quick-witted sense of humor. Bowling, going to the movies, tennis and playing the drums were some his favorite activities. He will be missed.